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Would he agree to some counselling if he's not too good at talking things through with you? I am trying to figure out if she has been posting stuff or emailing to anyone. He has been unfaithful and has been on dating sites a couple of different times.
Please don't think it could be caused by you having a body that he 'doesn't like' though! Many sites and apps like Tinder only allow people to see each other based on location and mutually matching search criteria like age and sex.
Recently my girlfriend tells me he is messaging her through a dating site. I am mad yes Id like to kick his ass for being so stupid and If pursues these women Ill have my answer I also know all it will take is one of his manic episodes and they wont stick around but I dont have to be a doormate either. I suppose it depends on the two individuals, but yes, the wife is in the drivers seat once she understands what we teach and begins to apply it.
Couples counseling will do more harm. Just because most of society does not know how to live in marriage much less repair oneis my husbands on a dating site not mean you cannot do it.
Part of being married is for better or worse, guess this is the worse part YUCK anyway. Please help, this has been going on for 10 years, he has done it before and I caught him. I am always saddened by the things people do to each other, the ones they love. Is it worth it to stay?
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Dear Christina It saddens me to see in your example how women have been convinced that the shallowness of sex and surface relationships is all you need. He had even e mailed me pictures of the house he was moving to.
We have a 15 year old daughter. There is every reason to fix the problems and have a good marriage, but you need to handle it correctly.
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How do I help him come out of online dating, affairs etc. The teachings we put out are nearly pure science, and the results are very predictable. It cannot be done. Lloyds Lloyds in overdraft fees shake-up as it changes charges - what you need to know and whether you should switch.
All throughout are marriage he has done this. We are just friends. You know, intuitively, that women have the power of the heart in marriage. But, still, you must try to help your daughter, and your son in law, if you can.
He has gone to doctors lately and I thtought we were sorting stuff out Best, in your situation where there is already a lot of resentment, to not even mention that he also has full access, unless he asks. Other than stealing her phone for the day, how can I see what she is really doing when I'm not around? So, he may just be testing his male magnetism for egotistical purposes. We'll soon find out.
Dear Jan I can appreciate your comment about my advice as it applies to your own situation, but a general article is not intended to cover every situation, nor do I suggest that a few tips are always adequate to resolve an issue that is essentially a symptom.